I read recently that the highest suicide rates in women occur between the ages of 40 and 55—our menopause and perimenopause stage of life. Is it really a mental breakdown? Can we turn it into a mental breakthrough? We, humans, don’t grow when we are comfortable, and as we have no elders to take us through initiation, and a tribe to welcome us back when we are wiser and transformed, life will challenge us in different ways, which is a modern-day form of initiation. Menopause with all its challenges: anxiety, depression, mood swings, brain fog, forgetfulness, sleep disturbances and insomnia, loss of motivation or sense of purpose, feelings of isolation or disconnection, fatigue and low energy, weight fluctuations, especially around the abdomen, digestive issues such as bloating and constipation and on and on the list goes on. Can make us lose hope and meaning, but what if it’s an initiation to the stage of wisdom and fulfilment? at least that’s what Indigenous wisdom keepers telling us. From talking to many post-menopause women, they all say that after the mad fluctuation of menopause, we are coming from the other side into an era of self-acceptance and creativity in a whole new way. Here’s the ayurveda approach to support you in this transit:FOOD: Healthy fats: Ghee, olive oil, sesame oil, and coconut oil help lubricate joints, skin, and the nervous system. Warm, cooked foods: Soups, stews, and root vegetables provide grounding energy. Protein-rich foods: Lentils, mung beans and nuts support muscle and bone health. Blood sugar balance: Avoid excessive caffeine, sugar, and processed foods to prevent mood swings and energy crashes. Digestive spices: Cumin, fennel, coriander, and turmeric improve digestion and reduce bloating.LIFESTYLE CHANGES: Consistent Daily Routine: Wake up and sleep at the same time each day to regulate hormones and nervous system function. Gentle Exercise: Yoga, walking, swimming, and strength training improve circulation, bone density, and mood. Self-massage (abhyanga): Use warm sesame or almond oil to nourish dry skin, reduce stress, and calm the nervous system. Hydration: Drink warm herbal teas (fennel, chamomile, or tulsi) and plenty of water to support digestion and circulation. Tech detox: Avoid screens at least an hour before bed to improve sleep quality. Cut on beauty products: Most skincare products are full of hormone-disrupting chemicals. Instead, make the best natural Botox—cold-pressed organic castor oil with 3-5 drops of frankincense oil. You’re welcome.MINDSET SHIFT:Reframe the narrative: Menopause is not an ending but a transformation into deeper self-awareness and wisdom. Connect with sangha: Join support circles that share your values. Join our sangha What’sApp group (LINK) so you are in the loop when we gather or share ideas. Prioritise rest: Deep rest is essential; embrace slowness rather than pushing through exhaustion, rest is the best way to produce estrogen after 40. Cultivate joy: Engage in activities that bring pleasure—dance, music, art, nature, and meaningful conversations. Practice mindfulness: Meditation and breathwork calm the mind, reduce anxiety, and bring clarity.HERBS: Shatavari: The ultimate rejuvenating herb for women, supporting hormonal balance and emotional well-being. Try our Re-Balance women’s mixAshwagandha: Helps manage stress, improve sleep, and restore energy levels. Try the Rejuvenate the adaptogen mixOr try the new Rewire Mix with Lion’s mane for a brain boost Brahmi (Gotu Kola): Enhances mental clarity, reduces brain fog, and supports emotional resilience. Guduchi: Cooling and rejuvenating, reducing inflammation and strengthening immunity. DM me with your order as the offer is only to those who are part of the sangha on the mailing.
Final Thoughts Menopause is a sacred passage, offering an opportunity to turn inward, nurture oneself, and step into a new phase of life with wisdom and grace. By aligning with Ayurvedic principles—nourishing the body, calming the mind, and embracing this transition with awareness—women can move through this time with strength and renewed vitality. Rather than resisting change, we can learn to flow with it, discovering the power and beauty in this phase of life.For deeper support and guidance, consider joining the Forest Dweller Course—a transformative program consisting of three recorded sessions and one live group mentoring session online. This course is designed to help you navigate menopause with Ayurvedic wisdom, practical tools, and a supportive community. |